Category: Parenting

Don’t raise your kids like racing horse.

Keep repeating to your kids the following : I see you tried very hard. not be afraid of failure which is normal. Success is build on failures. Even if you do well, it’s impossible to let everyone like you Manage

10K deliberate practice Kind learning environment(tennis, chess) Wicked learning environment (not simple goal and keep changing)

always ask question instead of give command or answer. keep curiosity and keep interaction Keep promise Sincerely thank and being happy

Praise hard work. You finished so much homework. Praise attitude. you were really focus when you were in art class Praise persistency. it was hard but you didn’t give up. Praise thought. this is a good idea how did you

where there is demands there is expectation and where is expectation there is emotion. the emotion could easily get out of control. parents mission is to bring up children instead of talent. Kids success is not like math 1+1=2. it’s

Very important one hour before they go to bed Read with them. not only good to interact with them in many ways but also make them love to read later in their age. Guide them to recall the events of

Take them to see the world for imaginations and creativities. Expose them to all different jobs to learn every job takes effort and appreciate what they have. Spend enough time with them to encourage persistently pursuing their dreams and learn

Story: mom pretend never got education and eager to learn. The son gave mom lessons to teach mom. It stimulated the son to pay more attention at classes then organized notes and further articulated points. Not bad idea! My question:

Organizing: start from baby playing sorting game then gradually sort/organize toys and room. House chores: increasingly teach and assign chores as they grow. Besides it’s a very important daily life skill there are following benefits during the process. 1. physical