| Balanced? | Being | Doing |
| What it is? | Inner peace, emotion control, ability to be happy | Your ability to get around: Making living, degrees, marriage, social life etc. |
| Raise kids with : | Unconditional love , not react with your own negative emotions | Self-discipline , grit |
| Adults: | Relaxation, meditation, count blessings, give thanks | Focus, work hard, use resources |
| Hope: | Bible(more than a Book) | Blessed being bless doing |