The Hand Model of the brain by Dr. Dan Siegel how to deal with pet peeves by partner with spirit. Be mindful instead of just biblical; not to ‘blow the top’ – your four fingers.
- Ephesians 4:26: Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger. 生气却不要犯罪；不可含怒到日落。Anger is emotion. God great us with emotion. be aware of the different between ‘anger’ and ‘sin’. Not anger too long.
- James 1:19–22: Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God. Therefore put away all filthiness and rampant wickedness and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls. But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. 我亲爱的弟兄们，这是你们所知道的。但你们各人要快快地听，慢慢地说，慢慢地动怒，因为人的怒气并不成就 神的义。所以你们要脱去一切的污秽和盈余的邪恶，存温柔的心领受那所栽种的道，就是能救你们灵魂的道。只是你们要行道，不要单单听道，自己欺哄自己。
- Quick to listen and seeking understanding. “quick to hear” to know all the facts. Prov 8: 13 15 (to verify my notes)
- Have a talk (not to wait for my turn:) Ephesians 4:29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. 污穢的言語一句不可出口，只要隨事說造就人的好話，叫聽見的人得益處。
- Own your part. Galatians 6:5 For each will have to bear his own load. 因為各人必擔當自己的擔子。James 1:21–22 Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you. Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 所以，你們要脫去一切污穢邪惡的行為，懷著溫柔的心領受那栽種在你們心中的道，它能拯救你們的靈魂。只是你們要行道，不要單單聽道，自己欺哄自己。For your health and safety, Do not take responsibility to other’s action.
- Partner with Spirit. “Do what it says” to become his child. Matthew 5:9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God. 使人和睦的人有福了！因為他們必稱為 神的兒子