- Not to compare with other kids. Or you won’t see their potential. If ‘worse’, hurt confidence. If better, bully could happened
- Not reward with material like toy. As they are only interested in toy for few weeks. Regard them with something fun, can do with family. Like make up your parents and do it together.
- About Schedule homework time and fun time. Not to discern them. Homework is fun, fun could be homework too. Don’t let them discern between homework and fun.
- Don’t spend money in touring. Spend money to explore the world with kids
- Train kids to make choice from little. Like what kind of ice cream.
- Encourage date in college.
- Not to spank kids, talk. Spank is easy and quick for parents, but it would make them scared not understand. The longest talk was 6 hours.
- Keep promise to kids, or kids will be lonely if not trust others after grow up.
- Don’t let your work get on the way stay with kids. Even few minutes would be the haven of kids
- Don’t let kids wait when they ask you question. Put down everything to spend time with them or explore together right away.
Looking for the video clip for this presentation: Going to Stanford is NOT the point I would like to emphasis, it is for raising a healthy, balanced and well off kids.